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By Publisher<\/span><\/p>\n Kindly share:<\/span><\/p>\n Mayor Akinpelu, the Publisher of Global Excellence Magazine, has cautioned Nigerian wives who are in the habit of using the police to evict their husbands from home in Europe and America, especially the UK and USA, to consider home before making rash decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n Akinpelu, who was analysing the trending video wherein the UK metropolitan police advised Nigerian wives to take care of their wives on TVC\u2019s Journalists\u2019 Hangout, blamed the trend on peer influence.<\/span><\/p>\n \u00a0He also pointed out that the trend is becoming increasingly common because of the growing empowerment of women in the regions.<\/span><\/p>\n According to him: \u201cThey believe that, especially when kids are involved, the woman is in a better place to care for them. So, they give up all privileges against the man. It\u2019s worse in America than in the UK.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cWhen you get to London, or when you get to the UK, you realise that there are a lot of single mothers; the reason is that when you have a problem with your husband, you can call the police.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n Akinpelu noted that men are always at the receiving end.<\/span><\/p>\n He said: \u201cThe police will tell the husband to move out of the house, and then the woman will start collecting benefits from the government to take care of the kids.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cSometimes, it\u2019s even better for a woman not to have a husband because she collects a lot of money on each child, and even if she has a child that has health challenges, maybe a Down syndrome or something, she collects more money. So, that\u2019s part of the problem,\u201d he noted, adding that<\/span> the<\/span> bias against men has landed many Nigerian men in jail.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cA Nigerian man would leave America to his village in the South-east to pick a wife, believing that the woman is a fresh person, and he doesn\u2019t want to deal with the women in America because they won\u2019t listen to him. Then he takes the lady to America; maybe he is a security man trying to make ends meet, but he decides to send the lady to school. Most nursing schools and the medical profession in America are well-paid, especially nurses. The woman graduates from nursing school and starts earning better than the guy,\u201d Akinpelu added.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cAnd then when the lady starts attending those cultural associations, maybe Nigerian associations from this state or from that state, they will meet other women. They will say, this is America. Don\u2019t allow any man to tell you anything. This is America. You have every right in this country. And that\u2019s how it works. So when they have issues or issues at any time, the lady calls the police. The police will come and say no matter what happens, they will ask the man to move out before investigating anything. If couples have issues, they ask the man to move out first.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cWhen the man moves out, if things get serious, the woman can complain that he\u2019s harassing her. They will give the man a restriction order not to be some kilometres around that premises. Meanwhile, the man will continue paying the mortgage for the house they sent him out from.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cSo, it gets to a stage where the man gets frustrated and then just kills the woman. It happens a lot in America. The man will just get frustrated and kill the woman. But what I want to say is that Nigerian women in Europe and America should know that no matter how long they stay there or carry the passports of those places, they are not from there.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n He advised women to consider the Nigerian culture in their issues.<\/span><\/p>\n \u201cSo, the women need to look at Nigeria culture and how we do things. I\u2019m not saying that marriage is perfect in Nigeria, but we have mechanisms to resolve differences between couples. If there is a problem between couples, their family members will come and try to convince you and all that,\u201d he said.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Akinpelu By Publisher Kindly share: Mayor Akinpelu, the Publisher of Global Excellence Magazine, has cautioned Nigerian wives who are in…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2296,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6,2],"tags":[677,676,678],"class_list":["post-2295","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-style","category-news","tag-global-excellence","tag-mayor-akinpelu","tag-nigerian-wives"],"yoast_head":"\n